When there is passion, there is little need for motivation!

Speaking with a good friend recently about parents who are having trouble understanding how to or what to do to motivate their kids. The answer can be difficult, but one thing is for sure. If your kids has a passion for something, reading, sports, music etc, they will be motivated to excel in that area. The key is to find that area, and that is not always easy. My suggestion is to keep exposing your children, (and begin early) to as many positive and challenging things as possible, yet don't push to hard, but rather gentle encourage them to be open minded and to explore as much as possible. Be excited when they are excited about something, be understanding when there are setbacks and disappointment.

We all have a purpose, we all have talents and gifts. We please God when we find, use and share our talents. Ask yourself and your child, "what am I good at without trying very hard?" This maybe your first step towards discovering your passion and purpose. Birds sing, and some fly because that's what they where made to do. I can't imagine a bird saying, "I'm tired of flying, I think I'll walk." Why, because that's not his purpose.

Are your kids good with their hands? Good at speaking? Have a passion for computers, writing, math etc? What brings them the most joy? Assist your children with finding their passion, and you'll rarely have to motivate them. Love and peace to all.